Having kids

I think it's a brave decision, especially in this day and age where people look at you crazy if you say you don't want kids. People can act so rudely sometimes.

My daughter was so completely unplanned that I almost jumped off the table when the dr confirmed it. I worry about her developing BP, but I also take comfort in being able to help her because I have an idea what she's dealing with.

My mom had told me that my dad was very upset when he found out she was pregnant. He never wanted kids because he didn't want to pass on his problems. I didn't understand until recently.

thats how I feel luckly the BF agrees

I'm a mum. It's amazing but it's so so painful so so much of the time. There's nothing more I love in the world than my baby, he makes me happy and pulls me threw. But I'm always so scared, of everything. Sometimes I feel like being a mum makes my BP worse and other days better, i try and focus on them. I sometimes wonder if I hadn't of had him what would be.. but then I feel awful because I love him so much, it brings tears to my eyes. But I'm still scared.

do you worry about him developing BP?

I can't have kids but if I did I would have made this decision

Good for you. I feel the same.

I glad I'm not alone it just seems mean for all involved.