What to do about friends ?

By bobbysmile Latest Activity October 1 at 9:05 pm Views 41 Replies 5 Likes 1

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So I was with my partner for about 5 years and into the relationship we got married for all the wrong reasons. Long story short half of my friends knew she was cheating on me , and what not . We have been over for 9 months but she still keeps in contact with most of my close friends ? What should I do, they were my friends first but how could I call them friends if they never told me ?

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  • bobbysmile
    bobbysmile October 2 at 12:12 pm   

    Yeah it's completely hard. There are times a get too over worked up which can be a little scary cause I don't want to get reckless when I see something I don't like

  • daisychain
    daisychain October 2 at 8:28 am   

    You can't undo the past. Look forward to the future, plan something nice, just for yourself. It will be hard, stay strong.

  • Helix13
    Helix13 October 2 at 3:09 am   

    This sucks man… been there, done that, got the scars to prove it lol.

    At first it would flip me out every time I knew they were with her and all sorts of sordid scenarios would jump into my mind.

    I backed off them as a statement of intent… Me or her… I lost friends but my true friends stepped up.

    I'm not suggesting you do it exactly like that, but wether you ignore it or attack it head on you need to not let it bother you or you'll suffer for it.

    Move on sounds cliche but it's the only way to say it bro.

    Your better than you give yourself credit for!

  • sonotony
    sonotony October 2 at 12:25 am   

    Agreed. Move on.